le boche per di me madre e miei amici

made my night better.

it was my mother's birthday. Her gift is now, officially, 1 year late.
but see, I am my mother's daughter, no denying it. She'll understand, if not get some shits and giggles about the situation.

aside from the wonderful postcard that ms. oqidaun sent me, my da sent me a *gift* with several adorable pics of my Leahbug. This made me smile from ear to ear.

The choir concert was OK. I have to remember Herbert, whose real name isn't Herbert at all. I don't know what it is, but he is totally where the idea for Bobble Heads originated. Holy shiitake. He was full of joy in his music though, I couldn't help but smile and almost giggle giddily as I watched him and the Choral Union sing.

Spoke with bindrune, and she is doing as is to be expected. All I have to say is WTF is UP with the Inhabitants of Jawndomay being targeted? At first I thought I was being paranoid, but now, after four break-ins into my car while living there, wraptboy's bike getting stolen, and now bindrune's car is MIA??? Whoever is throwing bad voo-doo their way, please remember: it comes back...so sayeth Zee Rulez. I'm cereal, 'member?

I meant to make more phone calls. Hallmates + gay man named Matt = silliness, giggles, conversations and mental connections I so needed today. I will go to bed with a lighter heart, although my thoughts will be focused on nothing but good befalling my friends/ loved ones. I am worried about you all.

(((HUGZ!)))
♥
the Dawn Dawn

snagged from zeldajean

"the best dear abby letter ever:"

Pregnant teen booted by jealous mom
Published in Suburban Chicago Newspapers 10/16/04

Dear Abby: I am a mother of two. I recently learned that my 16-year-old daughter, "Rene," is pregnant. When she told me who the father is, I discovered she had been having an affair with my live-in boyfriend, "Leo." It was devastating. I am engaged to marry Leo, and I still love him.

I made Rene move out. I know this seems harsh because she is pregnant, but I feel I can have a good relationship with Leo only if Rene is not around. I don't mean to choose him over her, but Rene is my daughter, and she should have known better.

What do you think I should do? I don't want to disown her. Also, I want to raise Rene's baby as my own, and this infuriates her. Who is wrong? Please give me your insight. -- Confused In Canada

Dear Confused: Please reorganize your priorities. Your duty is to protect your children. Leo is an adult. Your daughter is only 16. Leo has far more experience. Your fiance is a predator who may have pursued you in order to get close to your daughter. You say you have two children. Is the other child a daughter too?

It's time to show your fiance the door and call the police. Rene should stay with you until she's able to complete her education and care for herself and her baby. And Leo should help to financially support the child until it is an adult.



Dear Abby....

THANK YOU FOR MAKING SENSE!!!

WHAT in the hell is wrong with this woman?!!! She kicked her child out over a lover? WTHF???

The thing is, this is such a typical thing - well, the part about choosing the lover over the "other" woman or so it seems to me. I have seen women time and again blame the other woman and keep the man. Granted, this case is just fucking ludicrous, but overall...why? why do women do this?

When I found out my ex had cheated on me, guess who got the blunt end of the stick first? Not the women who slept with him, although they were eventually booted out of my life as well. That's an old story now though...

The point is, why keep the person who is cheating on you? Why bother? They don't care, or they just wouldn't do it! And they will do it, again and again. Why? Because you enable them to do so each time you take them back. You give them your trust, which they could obviously give a flying rat's-arse about, as they have show SOOO many times before.

grr.

I'm sorry, but the blatant stupidity in this world is really getting me down these days.

At this moment, I &heart; Ms. Abby.

As for the nimrod-mother in this instance, I can think of about a dozen Hannibal Thoughts (TM) which are all better than anything she even deserves. She just disgusts me...truly.

I am not a mother, but the moment I become one, the child will always, always come first and foremost.

:::flails angrily:::

oh, and just FYI

my monitor in my dorm cell has decided to take a shite on me, so don't be surprised if I am not able to answer e-mails and things in the next couple days. CNS will take at least that long to come out and look at the damn thing.


so yeah.
take care of yourselves.

(no subject)

Officially, my computer monitor is dead, so I won't likely get much e-mail the next couple days.
Soonest they can replace it is tomorrow.
More than likely, it will happen on Friday.

Just FYI*n*shtuff.